what colour is the apple is a wonderful story. So, what colour is the apple- red, green- and the child answered white. The teacher thought her, see dear it is either green or red. The child bite it and showed it.
Most of the time it seems our perception is superficial. We never want to really listen or understand. It is also not useful to understand others- it is just a headache if we want to "hate" them. So we never see the real, it is better to see the paint job.
You may ask me - come on you are the king of hating others. Haha- well the colour of the apple is not green or red. But i do judge people- very badly. Some of them i see once i just think they are a ass without any rhyme or reason. I need to change that. I do see people and think how does this idiot sleep without falling down, as he/ she seems to have no brain. Well what a drag to judge people. What a smallness of mind. But that what the self has developed into.
Need to change it. But it takes so much of my energy. You know the whole world has cause and effect- but how do we learn to "effect" - judge- someone without explicitly "causing" anything. Well the conditioned brain has learnt to pick small things which trigger something in the limbic system? and well you know the rest.
well sometimes i do like judging and feeling superior to the poor sucker. Well its fun. Well and many a times they are idiots- how is that for a paradox. well enjoy judging idiots- but remember the one who is judging is a construct of the context, nurture and genetic- so well it is not who is judging. well that has come full circle.
But well i have to reduce my judging of people- but for all the people who know me through social media- i dont hate - i do judge
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